God is with you but everything will not be his fault. He can only move on your behalf to the degree that you are going to allow him to do so and allowing him to do so does involve accountability. I finally understand what my grandmother was speaking of, and personally, I am choosing to get out of my way. I understand that some of the things that I want to see in my life are not present because I didn't show up for myself. Not because God didn't show up for me. To be honest with you, I think he's been waiting for me to show up. He might be waiting for you too.