BY JE’DON HOLLOWAY-TALLEY | Special to the Birmingham Times RODERICK AND VANESSA BESTER Live: Forestdale Married: Aug. 18, 2001 Met: On a Sunday evening in February 2000, over the phone. They were introduced by Vanessa’s cousin Kim, who is a close friend of Roderick’s family. Kim was visiting Roderick and his family “when she called […]