Three years after their tumultuous split and accusations of domestic violence and infidelity, Tamar Braxton says she and Vincent Herbert have a great relationship.

,” the Braxton Family Values star told Entertainment Tonight.

“Because for 16 years, we’ve been together and been best friends, and I think what we had to revert back to is, remembering that we were friends first and it took a little while, especially, you know, with [my boyfriend, David Adefeso], in the mix of things.

Braxton filed for divorce in October of 2017 after being married for nine years.

Now that those dark days of divorce are behind her, Braxton is eager to have more children.