Everybody needs help at one time or another. But it is the stamina, purpose, self-determination, self expectation, planning and good character that enables and empowers a person to find his or her own way through life. To achieve. To acquire. To make things as they need to be. So stop counting on somebody else and realize that it’s up to you. Yes YOU! We don’t need any more leeches or parasites to keep draining the system, our communities, the food banks and the charities. If you can do for yourself, you should. Because when it really comes down to it, why should somebody do more for you than you are willing to do for yourself?