At the end of the day, if you believe in God, then you believe in the judgment that you would have to stand before Him one day. I promise you he's not gonna ask you any questions about anyone else. He's only gonna wanna know about your life, and how you lived it. So maybe you should start there. That would be an encouragement to others. If you want to affect the walk of someone else, allow yourself to be a light that shines. A lighthouse doesn't have to speak, all that must do is shine.